Get Real & Get It On for "Two Oh Oh Fives"!

Pamcakes in Singapore...

Two thousand five. Another year. Another season. Another 364 days to go.

I'm down to the first day of this year, passed an hour more and 10 minutes or so...

Will this year be totally different from the previous years? 23 years and I'm still counting...

I'm not sure what's so special about this year or every year for that matter.

I don't know why but I just have this lonely feeling right at this moment.

A big part of it is because yesterday was so quiet and rainy and just downright different from how things are in the Philippines when January 1 strikes...

Fact #1 Celebrations for the Chinese New Year are grander around here (as in the Lunar calendar's new year) ....so yesterday wasn't that much of a deal.

So here goes the top 5 "Hmph List" for my New Year:

Major turnoff

#1) No deafening fireworks to scare me and the bad spirits away! Not even one!

#2) No polluted air to turn all those big flat noses to black (hehe!)

#3) No family to share media noche with and eat all those 12 rounded fruits.

#4) No more jumpin' up & down in that desperate hope of gettin' added inches

#5) No overflowing inbox of happy cheers & greetings for the new year!

But of course, I also want to count my blessings! Top 5 in my "Happy Counter":

Happee Mee

#1) Dad bought a webcam yesterday & ' was able to see all 5 of them for New Year

#2) My ever sweet Li'l bro Mateo drew me a picture with hearts & butterflies!

#3) Leslie, my best sistah finally installed her webcam & I saw her too!

#4) Angelo, my mahal, & I cooked seafood pasta & shrimps! We had a happy dinner.

#5) Finally watched my first movie of the year "Meet the Fockers"! oh and....

#5b) I altered my new pants on my own, Thanks to home economics class!

Our Li'l "New Year Celeb for 2005"

Tnx for bearing with the wobbly pic up there. Hope it don't daze u much! heee!

Well, so life goes on and as a tribute to *2005* I'd like to share my friend's entry. I think it's a good one to inspire us to just "Go for It" for this coming year! And since I love dancing, what best title could there be but....

Dance Like No One's Watching

by Nat Casuela

(thanks for this one Nat saved me one entry hahah! Really inspiring! Let's all JUST GET REAL! ... and dance the night away! )

We all manage to convince ourselves to procrastinate the good things in life and delay happiness...
...until the morning.
...until the next paycheck.
...until we finish school.
...until we get to work.
...until we get settled down and married.
...until we have kids.
...until the kids grow up.
...until they get married.
...until we retire.
...blah blah blah blah blah blah.

But why don't we ever realize that although there is a time for everything, what better time is there than now?

Grab each moment and seize every opportunity...
Watch the sun rise or watch it set.
Count the stars.
Climb a mountain.
Dive from a cliff.
Ride a go-cart or a hot air balloon.
Hold hands and kiss in public.
Cry during a movie.
Walk naked around the house.
Fall in love.

Why do we deny ourselves the fun? Why do we care what other people think? Why do we feel guilty whenever we feel happy, just because...
...people are watching?
...our parents wouldn't approve?
...our friends wouldn't approve?
...we haven't finished our homework?
...haven't reached our quota?
...or haven't gone to church?

We all tend to focus more on the problems and challenges we encounter, rather than the process by which we go through these. On our quest to happiness, we don't realize that happiness is the instrument and the pathway to what we so desperately seek for. To become happy, we must be happy.

Conservative individuals argue that doing the crazy things in life would cause them to lose the respect they have earned. Is there really logic in that? Would you respect someone who witholds himself from doing something he wants because of what other people may think, or someone who does something he wants despite what other people may think?

The great minds of the past 21 centuries will never be forgotten because they all defied the status quo and did what they had to do... they may have defied the law of Man (e.g. Nelson Mandela, Andres Bonifacio, the Unknown Rebel who stood in front of 17 tanks in Tiananmen Square, 1989) or even the law of Nature (e.g. Albert Einstein), the Church (e.g. Copernicus, Galileo) or society itself (e.g. Martin Luther King, Helen Keller, Ghandi), and beliefs that have been established for generations... they may have been imprisoned or they may have died for their cause... but in the End, they earned the respect they so deserved...because they stood up for what they believed in. Because they had the guts and the courage to seize the moment and make a difference.

So let's learn, instill and act from what they have demonstrated...

To live for the moment, by the moment.

No matter the consequence.

No matter the drama.

Dance as if no one's watching... Love like you've never been hurt...